When you do the problem wrong but get the right answer.

8 at home, 7 at grandparents. 4 is also super familiar, but I don’t have a firm memory.

Exactly the opposite. We should have empathy, tolerance, and inclusiveness for all, unless people choose to exclude themselves from that collective. I’m saying those who only have parochial empathy shouldn’t expect to receive empathy from others they’ve already cut themselves off from, and it’s not something those they shut out to be shamed for that they experienced the repercussions of their actions.

Some people say empathy, tolerance, & inclusion are strictly moral values. However this misses that they are also a social contract lest we end up in the paradox of tolerance.

Kirk had none for those outside his in-group. Those outside his in-group owe him none in return.