that’s quite a long compose file.
the way that I use cloud flare is with tunnels since my ISP blocks my ports. I have cloudflared running that connects to the cloudflare tunnel, which has a map of domain name to a service name, which is how services are accessed externally.
tailscale connects to tail scales main service and that’s how I access internal systems. at least that’s how I’m running it.
I went to an interview for a company in the west coast and I was in central time. the recruiter told me that they had core hours and I’d have some flexibility. one of the first questions was whether I was willing to work Pacific time, which I wasn’t, especially since it wasn’t the best paying job in the world. That interview lasted about 30 seconds.
tailscale is a vpn. you don’t need cloudflare for it. you do need to set up the tail scale container with your credentials from tail scale, which they have guides for. after that, log in on your machine and click the connect toggle and you’re in.
the exit node is if you want to look like you’re at your host computer.
The thing with therapists is that you need to find one that works for you, but that also takes experience.
But I think that if you avoid Christian counselors, you’ll more likey avoid that. My experience with Christian ones is that they tend to be more on the side of making you look the part rather than being your true self, since you know, your true self is despicable in the eyes of God and all.
I think it you can afford it, going over these things with a professional can help you work through things or help you identify how that’s affected you in ways you may not have thought.
and remember, you can always change therapists (just avoid changing because they challenge you)
I’m guessing y’all didn’t know about this then
what an experience! thank you for sharing :)
it looks like you’ll need to message the mods
I’ll include mine to show that it’s not unusual to support them! it’s my favorite and most used self hosted project
while reading this, I almost said, “wow, what a dick,” before thinking that he might appear and start wagging it around, like bloody Mary, but worse.
it’s amazing how far wealth can get you in life